Why We Think Joey Tribbiani From Friends Deserved Better! (Photo Credit – Instagram)
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I always believed Joey Tribbiani (played by Matt LeBlanc) was the beating heart of Friends. Yeah, the guy who loved sandwiches more than anything. The guy who couldn’t say “Je m’appelle Claude.” The one who wore ALL of Chandler’s clothes out of revenge. But beneath all the punchlines and meatball subs, Joey had something the others didn’t – pure, unfiltered love for his friends.
He didn’t need a big romantic arc or a shiny career. What he needed, what he chose, was connection. Real, platonic, ride-or-die friendship. He was the guy who’d leap in front of a bullet to protect a sandwich and still make you feel like he’d do the same for you. That was Joey.
Friends Made Joey Tribbiani The Comic Relief Guy
Friends often turned Joey into a joke. The “dumb” one. The comic relief. The guy who got dumber with each season so everyone else could shine. I used to laugh, sure. But the more I rewatched, the more I realized he was never the joke. The writing made him one.
Let’s talk about when he tried to learn French for an audition. He gave it everything – his time, trust in Phoebe, and whole weird “flib-flab-blu” vocabulary. Total flop. But that flop came from effort. Joey tried, again and again, whether it was acting, friendship, or holding onto Monica and Chandler’s secret like national security.
Do you remember when he wrote that adoption letter in crayon? I do. It was hilarious. But also… it was love. Monica and Chandler needed someone to vouch for them, and Joey, in his own Joey way, stepped up. It didn’t matter that he used a thesaurus so aggressively that it read like Shakespeare meets a robot. What mattered was the heart behind it.
I mean, the man cried over Little Women. He felt things. That’s rare in sitcoms, and even rarer in male characters from the ‘90s. Joey let himself be vulnerable. He let himself care. He was the glue between everyone in Friends – Rachel’s roommate, Chandler’s soulmate, Phoebe’s cheerleader.
Joey Tribbiani Deserved Way Better Than The Laugh Tracks
Here’s the kicker: Joey never got the same depth the others did. He never had a long-term love story. He never got the big finale moment. He just got spin-offed into Joey and left behind. Because somewhere along the way, the writers decided the “wise fool” role was more valuable than giving him real growth.
And that’s what this title says loud and clear: Joey had the purest heart, and that’s why the show treated him like a joke. The very thing that made him beautiful made him disposable to the narrative. But not to us. We saw him. We still do. And if you’re like me, you’ll always believe Joey was the real soul of Friends. Meatball subs and all.
